Everybody's like, "He's no item! Please don't like him.
He don't wife 'em, he one nights 'em!"
Now she don't like him, she never met him...-Jay-Z (Excuse Me Miss)
Ask any man and he will tell you that his girl's single friend(s) are usually relationship cryptonite.
Basically it's misery loves company type of situation. But it's up to you women to not fall for the okie doke. Your miserable and or desperate friend will try to plant seeds of doubt and then continue to water those seeds in hopes that they grow. And if you truly have a good man they will jump at the chance to get him once you've let your paranoia get the best of you.
I've been in situations where the friend has told a female all kinds of lies about me or embellished the truth to make me seem terrible. All the while calling me or emailing me or whatever about how she doesn't understand why her friend is acting so funny and maybe she could take me out for drinks to talk about it. Cute, but I don't fall for the banana in the tailpipe.
There are men who do this too. They, just like their female counterparts, are so scared of losing a friend that they lose sight of the fact that their friend might gain some level of happiness from their mate or potential mate. It's selfish and unfair. Because when that friend finds someone they won't even let others around them simply because they know how sneaky and conniving they themselves are.
Take advice from your friend(s) but also be smart enough to follow your own heart. If you choose to break up with a person or not date a person let that be your choice and your choice alone because if and when you realized you made a mistake based on your friend(s) advice then you'll look like a real fool.
you gotta watch your friends, you got to watch me
they conniving shit
the first chance to crack the bank
they'll try me,
all they get is 50 cent franks and papayas....-Jay-Z(Ain't No Nigga)
This has been a Ddot the King production "I'm looking like a star bitch, when you see me make a wish"
106 comments:
i have a friend like that. but she wasn't single at the time. her realtionship was fu*ked up so she basically tried to make my man to be the devil cause thats what she was dealing with. she still does that shit. i just ignore her like i always do.
@kool thanks for answering me, on the other post...
him, i havent experienced this, but i know the situation you speak of
I wish married women would stop asking me for advice. I've been divorced twice -- what the hell do I know?
Kryptonite is spelled with a "k" and is traditionally capitalized. Now aren't you dreadfully embarrassed?
all I got to say is...i'm not like that :-D
but of course I have moved to another level of singleness that I can't be like that :-P
@chele, im bout to get one of those myself....this whole thing really messed with my confidence
N1S - I know how you feel. I'm going on five years and I doubt if I'll walk down that plank again.
that's wwwwwaaaaaaayyyyy to easy
i'll be nice
chele-yeah i dont know what ima do....i dont wanna be a jaded women, but its hard not to
what you talking bout kween
as to why someone in here is single
oh, damn that went way over my head, lol, i gotta do more reading and less typing, lol but im withcha now
N1S -- being jaded comes with the territory. Just make sure it's a temporary state. The guy I'm seeing now actually said to me "Who the hell jaded you?" This was almost three years ago.
ps...anyone who can get the micheal basden show on the radio...listen, he has a very interesting topic on
What's the topic?
chele, im trying to lift my heart cause this is so out of character for me, im a very trusting person, its harder for me to distrust....i assume trust till you prove me wrong
@laa. technically the topic is about hating a$$ friends who try to wreck your happy relationships
N1S, that's a great attitude! Keep it! Walking around being suspicious will drain the life right out of you.
I can relate to that. I wonder if that's what spurred D to write this post.
oh you were asking what M. Basden is talking bout, lol
he's doing a pleasure principle show
saying younger women are more advanced than the men
the men are in trouble, they've never been taught how to please a women and they dont talk about it, they brag
I have to admit that it is very difficult to not bring the baggage with you after divorce...I guess that's why they say you need to be by yourself for a while before getting into a relationship again.
he further stated that by the time by the time a women in 25, she's had a 3some, been to several toy/pole dancing parties, and had a lesbian experiance
@chele, thanks...it sure will, i dont have time to be inspector gadget, if i gotta 2nd guess everything someone says, i dont need to be with them...
@laa, thats what im doing now, doing me, enjoying my own company...
i'm 29 and i haven't had any of those...am i slow?
dang kool u never been to a toy party...
I agree. But sometimes being by yourself doesn't do it. You have to really resolve those issues, unpack that baggage or it will follow you into the next.
nope...never seen a porno either.
WHAT!!!!
what?
the next segment will be about, toys replacing men....but i'll be in the gym by then
@chele...im not closed off, but i havent really met anyone im attracted to right now...
Koolbreeze is good girl. Good for you!
Kool - you're not slow -- just sheltered.
N1S -- take your time, girl. he'll find you.
GP -- ain't nothing wrong with being a good girl. Oh, if I could turn back time ... :)
girl go get a flick today...lol
don't corrupt her!
yeah i agree Chele. i couldn't do anything growing up...kicked in college though... but as far as the toys and pornos and all...i guess by the time i could i didn't want to.
Oh I definitely know that nothing is wrong with a good girl. Good girls are gold.
you aren't missing anything.
hey everythings not for everybody
but do yall think ladies are more advanced, read up if you dont know what im talking bout
Kween~ i was kind of curious as to what the hype was...but i don't think i can bring myself to actually watch
well ... maybe a toy or two wouldn't be THAT bad.
You must read kinky sex books Kool. I know you ain't that innocent..lol. But I don't think that parents should have pornos in their home. Kids are too nosey.
yeah yo hubby could use the toy on ya....add a lil spice
some older men don't ask either...
GP~ i have 4 kinds...i don't read!!!lol
Chele what do you mean the guy you're seeing?! I thought I was going to be your boy toy!!! LOL
kids
Oooops. The cat's out of the bag!
Then how do you know what to do?..lol. You just go with the flow..right?..lol
GP I agree...that's how I started watching them cuz my parents had them...lol
Arson is so silly..lol.
what's wrong with having a real live teacher?
see women are well adjusted and aware these days, we can have these conversations with our friends and moms, nowadays, where as men will never talk about these things...
GP~ pretty much.
lol...yeah candy before they were d&dness of course
i found my moms toys and porn b4, no biggy
i could not have this conversation with my mom...shes a prude only been with 1 man her who life.
Kool that is beautiful...
aron~ you know you already know the answer to that!
Baby got ass part 1-300.
Hey Arson! How's it hanging?
arson~ that was to you
Nice post.. I sooo agree.. I like to get the opinions of my friends but I make the decisions of anything.. i actually had a "friend" that was jealous of GTL.. she said.. you spend more time w/ him than me1 you damn right!!
part 1-300...is that part 1 through part 300?
GP.. thats a cute pic!
porn.. not my cup of tea...
what the hell?
Chance stop acting like you belong in a special ed class.
so there is a part 300?
lol @ King
Thanks Tif.
someone so need to go play in traffic
Chance needs some dick in his life!
chance how bout u just leave...and u don't have to worry about your comments being deleted
then let it go and stop showing everyone you ride the short bus
arson, that wasn't for u fyi...
parts 1-300? dang. Also, not my cup of tea. Seen a few but they just seem so ... silly. I usually end up laughing and I don't think that's the desired effect.
hey video -- long time no see. tell your friends to kiss your behind and love the one your with!
What's up with that email chance. You gotta let's know what up with that.
i typically watch it when i am with a dude...
i don't see how its a turn on anyway... i don't want to see somebody else getting on...i want to be getting on!!!
candy -- something you and your partner are making? I heard that!
Kool, Chance mama use to have him out there waiting for the short bus two hours before it came. Waiting in the dark...lol
voyeurism is definitely a turn on.
LMAO!!!
@ Arson~ you better hurry up before Gay boy heads your way!
LMAO! GP that was the funniest thing I've read since I've been writing this blog!
Yall don't even comment on him. He's comments will be deleted as soon as I can get to them.
Continue with this discussion. Oh and I heard Booty Talk 1- 572 is pretty good too. LOL
Aww shit. Ddot sings..rofl!
GP: Does watching it in the mirror qualify as voyeurism?
572 parts! damn... can a porn go on for that long without getting boring?
that's crazy, but I know how you feel. I'm going through something similar.
so d.. you're deleting all of his comments?? why.. that's just gonna make him post more.. i know it's hard.. but if everyone just ignored him... he'd probably (hopefully) eventually go away...
i agree candy.. porn... overrated..
I am not sure..lol.
I'll rather watch a sexy couple get at though..lol.
ok ya'll peeked my interest...what is voyeurism? do i want to know?
He's going to tear this blog up when Ddot leaves!!!..rofl
Girl you know slow people don't like to be denied anything. They get real disorderly when you don't give them what they want...lol.
kool - voyeurism just means watching.
Hell yeah. I tell them fools to get their little blue lights off me. Shit..lol.
ok...to clear the air cuz someone got it twisted...i used NIGGER in its true form towards Chance...
Read Bruh...lol Bruh HA HA...
anyways...
i know me watching pornos before I actually was de-virgined helped me come off the bench into the game like veteran...
They be mad, boy they be mad. They don't think it's fair when you are sitting there watching them and are not participating. It's crazy..rofl.
Ddot needs to get his love child..lol.
That fool is going whacko jacko on this blog. Chance is losing it! Damn, D. You see what I am talking about the Crying Game. This fool is off the chain!
so i take back what i said about ignoring him and NOT deleting his crap!! PLEASE get them long ass posts off of here! is there anyway to block a particular person from commenting?
dammit...where's my comment
Kween get you child please he's throwing a tantrum.
rat
see now that is some shitty shit...we can't have a decent conversation cause this fucker don't know when to quit. can't you block him or something?
awww hell guess i'll go do house work...
LOL.. this is SOOOOOOO TRUE... I ain't got nuthin to say.. but dem miserable broads gone be miserable after they break up yo happy home!
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