Thursday, March 16, 2006

Pet Peeve Vol.1...


Hasty Generalization-X is true of A, B and C. Therefore X is true of everything.
Find a commonality in a few things and then generalize to assume that it is also true for all things in the same class.



Generalizations. I hate that. Generalization is the mother of racism, sexism, and any othe ism you can think of.

After chatting with Chance in the my comment section for the past few weeks I've noticed that he is very big on generalizations. I went over to his blog and I noticed that he even tries to use facts to back up his feelings. That's very dangerous and quite honestly I found his blog to be quite offensive. For the life of me I can't understand why he feels the need to break down why African-Americans are this way or that way. We are not all the same.

I also recently had a conversation with a female acquaintance who assumes or generalizes men. Quite irritating. Don't get me wrong she's a nice person but anybody who assumes that every man that she meets is probably on the down low has issues.

Don't get me wrong sometimes generalizations are reasonable. The soundness of a generalization can usually be determined by asking the following questions:

1. Do we have a sufficient number of instances to draw a conclusion?
2. Is the breadth of the conclusion drawn supported by the evidence?
3. Are the terms of the conclusion consistent with the terms of the evidence?

Yall like it when I sound smart don't you?

Anyway if a female were to make the statement that men love sports nobody is going to argue with that. Does every man like sports? No but if we ask our 3 questions we could come to a reasonable generalization that wouldn't offend anybody.

If we suggest that blacks are more prone to violence like our friend Chance suggessts then we have a problem. A major problem. A huge ass problem. He'll tell you it has something to do with African-Americans producing more testoterone than other races and that it is also the reason we're better in sports and why we get irritated quicker than members of other races. And the thing is I'm sure he feels that he's doing some kind of service by writing that for others to see. The problem is your local KKK members and your favorite skinheads live for that type of generalization. He also says black people are overly sexual and if we would control ourselves more we'd have a very powerful race of people. Is that suppose to make us feel better about that racists comment Chance?

We are all individuals. Don't assume things about me based on the black guy that beat you up and took your girl when you were 15. I might take your girl but I'm too pretty to be going around fighting. That was a joke. Sorta.

As for my female friend, who thinks that if she offered sex to 10 men all of them would take her up on the offer, you too are wrong. Men have morals too! Out of 20 or so of my male friends and acquaintances I can only think of 2 that might take a random chick up on an offer of anonymous sex and those are the two that no woman would want to give it up to in the first place.

To make a long story short everybody has different experiences and influences. it would be ridiculous to assume that me and some random black man in Kansas are even remotely alike. I have a twin brother and even we aren't exactly alike because we have different experiences in life. Chance I think you could stand to travel a little more and see the world and meet different people. You are always talking about Cali but your experiences with Crip and Bloods isn't going to be the same with a black man in Atlanta. And for my female friend you're never going to be happy if you continue to think the way you do. You want a special someone and yet you assume we are all the same. Kind of ironic isn't it? Oh well I'm done preaching now. You are all jerks and that's not a generalization!

120 comments:

NegroPino™ said...

mORNING ....KINGDOM

Ddot the King said...

Ms. New Booty?!! LOL! I like it! Good morning Missy...

chele said...

I won't take this opportunity to bash Chance's blog (even though it's tempting) but the truth is I don't understand where he's getting his "facts" from and half the time I swear he's wasted when he's writing so I don't bother to responding to most of it anyway.

Regarding generalizations: They can be dangerous ... I agree with you on that. I'm also guilty of saying things like "all men are alike" or "all white people are alike" when I really don't believe either one of those statements. People have made assumptions about me for various reasons and I'm tired of having to defend myself all the time.

chele said...

oh yeah ... good morning.

Ms. New Booty? Did you have surgery or something? :)

NegroPino™ said...

noPE..NO SURGERY CHELE.... LOL.....

NegroPino™ said...

gENERALIZATIONS ARE THE DEBIL...I LEARNT THAT WHILE TRYNA CLASSIFY ALL MEN AS DOGS....AND U KNOW WHAT I LEARNT THAT MEN WON'T HUMP JUST ANYTHING..ILL GIVE THEM CREDIT 4 THAT...

Cool AC said...

Your post is very interesting, I am going to test your theory on generalizations of men. I will get back to you with the results.

Ddot the King said...

You're right Missy we won't hump anything!


AC I will be looking forward to hearing your results!

Ddot the King said...

Like Chele said I think we all do it at times but we have to be very careful because that is a very dangerous thing to do.

NegroPino™ said...

heLL I KNOW A DUDE THA WONT LET ME DOME HIM AND IM LIKE WTF NOT LIKE I WOULD BUT I THOUHGT MEN DOMED ANYTHING LOL THOUGHT WRONG

TTD said...

great post! i agree 100% cause i'm 1 in a million!!!

Lāā said...

Good morning everyone!

I was wondering when you were going to get with Chance on his generalizations. Like Chele, I don't respond to his comments and read maybe the first two sentences of his comments then I move on.

I was guilty in believing that all men were dogs but that was what I was surrounded by at the time. My perspective is different because I don't limit my thinking anymore and I have expanded my mind.

Black people are extremely diverse as I'm sure other races are and it is totally offensive to think that someone can sum anyone up like he does. It's an insult to our intelligence. Afterall no one is 100% pure anything.

Ddot the King said...

He wouldn't let you dome him Missy?? Ummmm....let me think about that one! LOL


Good stuff VX. Looks like I have some very open minded and reasonable readers!

Ddot the King said...

Yeah I started receiving a lot of emails complaining about Chance and some of his statements. Hopefully he can learn something.

Oh and I hate to correct you Laa but I am 100% pure sexiness! LOL

nikki said...

generalizations are the root of all evil. (was that a generalization? LOL)

i agree with you. life experience is the determining factor when it comes to one's belief system and unless in that life the person has met up with every person in the world, there is absolutely no basis for him or her to make generalizations.

hell, you can't even say all black people have brown skin!

nikki said...

in fact, the only generalizations i know of that's applicable:

1. all living people breathe, whether by their own power or with the assistance of a machine.

2. all living people will die.

3. all living people need oxygen in order to keep living.

Lāā said...

My bad D...LOL How could I forget

Ddot the King said...

I can dig it Nik!

Don't ever forget that Laa!

TTD you are definitely 1 in a million!

Ddot the King said...

I think we all can agree with your assessment Robin. :)

I hope you will continue to enjoy the madness of My Kingdom especially somebody representing the great state of North Carolina!

TTD said...

please dont robin.. dont get him even more stuck on himself! LOL

but i agree w/ all of u.. chance's comments are out there! i dont understand where he comes up w/ his ideas.. so usually i try to ignore him

but his feelings will probably hurt & he may disappear after today

Drama Kween said...

Good Day Folks

I am home today, chillin, emailin, and cleanin...

Love the post D...and yeah I sista like when a brother can "sound smart"...

Women love to shop is my favorite generalization, do all women love to shop, no...but looking at #3 no one will argue with that statement

:-D

Ddot the King said...

C'mon Tiffany admit that Robin said what all of us are thinking!

I think the opposite will happen and Chance will use this to really argue his points as he is very adamant about his beliefs. We shall see.

Drama Kween said...

statement #3 jenny girl

Ddot the King said...

Well I personally can't argue on that subject because I simply don't know. I usually just focus on my own package and leave it at that!

Lāā said...

Why you change your name again Kween and I just got through looking at a guy dancing to Poison on Miz JJ's blog LOL

Drama Kween said...

so u've never watched a porno D

Drama Kween said...

lol i just noticed the you are just LAA now...lol...girl i had that song in my head for a long time...so that's why i changed it...

Drama Kween said...

to say all is never true...

commonly found, maybe true

i use to have a theory that all dark brown to dark skinned black men had large members...until i met a few who didn't...and thought that yellow negroes didn't...but then some changed that theory also...

so you can never really really say, and i never had a white guy or any other race to compare the validity of that generalization

Ddot the King said...

That's kind of the whole point of the blog Jenny. You can't generalize. Some do and some don't. If we agree that all black men have larger members then we can't cry foul when they say all black men are violent or can run fast.

nikki said...

i have to admit, after reading just one of chance's comments, i stopped reading them, primarily because there was just too much preachiness there. that's just me, though.

as for the member thing...that's sooooo not true.

and it's also not true that guys who are tall and big have large members.

i dated this one guy who was 6'4, 265, dark-skinned and football team captain. let's just say he wasn't 'representing properly'.

then i dated another guy who was 5'8, 200, light-skinned and had never played a sport in his life.

and brotha represented to the fullest. the FULLEST i tell you.

Ddot the King said...

Wow. Well there you have it Jenny. Thanks Nikki...I think.

Grant said...

Somebody said black people are violent? I hope you kicked the crap out of him and slept with his woman. As usual, Ddot, you are a credit to your race. And you speak English very well, all things considered. Did I miss anything? :p

I have noticed that I've never heard a black man complain when people say black people are better at sports. I guess its only the bad stereotypes we want to avoid. If people went around assuming I have a giant penis because of my Cherokee heritage, I probably wouldn't correct them either.

TTD said...

off topic.. but.. GTL took me to cheesecake factory for my 1st vist... their food is GREAT!

Drama Kween said...

TTD i love them

I am going to Red Lobster tonight

TTD said...

chance is usually here by now.. i told u, u would hurt his feeligs

chele said...

i'm sure he's here now ... lurking

Ddot the King said...

He'll be here.

Drama Kween said...

He'll prolly be here soon...but let's focus on something else

chele said...

@kween: I read that story and I was cracking up.

chele said...

although I think you may want to talk to someone regarding your obsession with D -- raise your standards, girl!

:-)

TTD said...

LMAO @ chele... you gonna take that D?!?

Drama Kween said...

CHELE thanks...i try to entertain folk over at my Kweendom...lol

chele said...

he knows I'm just playin' -- i got nothin' but love for the King.

Drama Kween said...

lol my obsession...

Girl I am just playing on the whole King and Kween thing that's all

Like Sanaa in Brown Suga..."Paleeez we are just friends[fellow bloggers]"

TTD said...

well said goddess

Carmell said...

bout damn time somebody said something

chele said...

I know ... but ya'll do make a cute couple!

Drama Kween said...

awww thank you Chele...though more cute on my end of course.....lol
j/k

chele said...

of course ... that goes without saying.

NegroPino™ said...

Kween-eat some biscuits for me :(

Drama Kween said...

no problem Missy...i mean Ms. New Booty :-)

Carmell said...

hey Jenny~ how come you haven't blogged about anything since that punk Josh????

Ddot the King said...

Ok I'm back. I see Kween has been advertising again. And to make it worse it's a story with the dumb dude in it. Unbelievable.

Ddot the King said...

Jenny keep writing even if it's not as persoanl. It can be very therapeutic. I have been meaning to tell you and Julissa that! Just write anything!

chele said...

he's right. Just keep writing. Hell, write about what you watched on television last night ... you see all the mess we talk about on here ... draw from that.

Carmell said...

really. i write a lot about my kids, and BD, and husband, and friends, just anything... alot of TV too. shit we don't care

Drama Kween said...

my bad king...i will fix it for you of course...

Ddot the King said...

Yall ran Chance away! LOL

Lāā said...

You started it D!

Didn't he ask you to write something and then he would respond to it

Carmell said...

how did WE run him away. i've been ignoring his ass since the first long drawn out shit he wrote. then he had to defend every damn comment.

Ddot the King said...

Yeah that's what he said. Maybe he thought that my high testotorone levels would prevent me from writing a clear and concise piece on the subject. You know because I'd be too busy thinking about sex,sports, and violence. HA!

Carmell said...

and D...you kept encourging him!

Ddot the King said...

Well I can't blame myself! That's what I have you guys for, to be my scapegoats! :)

Carmell said...

aww thats messed up

Carmell said...

anybody check his blog to see if he responded over there?

chele said...

As long as he has his pipe, he'll be fine.

Carmell said...

damn chele!!! that was funny as hell!

Ddot the King said...

Nah I didn't check it out. Who wants to volunteer to go check it out and then let us know what he wrote?

chele said...

Ya'll know that boy was high.

TTD said...

i agree chele! he was on something!!! that ganja! no what he called.. that KILLA.. LMAO

Carmell said...

your blog D you do it.
i thought he was high too... does even have a real job?

Ddot the King said...

To Chele,

That wasn't a nice thing to say about him(Chance). He repeatedly told yall(loyal subjects) that he didn't smoke that killa(weed). Be nice.


LOL!

chele said...

sorry -- i'm making a generalization about those california surfer dudes. my bad.

Lāā said...

Can you tell if he was lurking today?

TTD said...

no you not chele! you came to a conclusion about chance b/c of the way he commented

but.. LMAO @ D for commenting like chance

Ddot the King said...

Yeah he's been here and stayed for awhile. Yall mean black people(that includes Grant, VX, and Jenny) ran him off now I have no one to debate! Jerks.

Carmell said...

he didn't debate. he said things like he thought and if you didn't agree then something was wrong with you!

Lāā said...

Well, he really didn't debate you...oh great king.

chele said...

We're rubber
You're glue

You know the rest jerk.

Kip said...

To King,


I've been following the comment section and I will respond if you continue this tomorrow if you don't I will not respond to this subject.

Carmell said...

chele is on a roll today!

TTD said...

so that means dont post tomorrow D!

Carmell said...

now he gonna tell you what to do on your blog and when. damn... you gonna take that D?

Ddot the King said...

I know you've been following everything Chance. What I don't understand is why you keep putting things off until "tomorrow". I thought only black people procrastinated!! HA!

Carmell said...

he tryin to run things

Ddot the King said...

He ain't running ish over here!

Chance you have a lot to say. Step up to the plate! I knew you would wait until as close to 4:30 as possible to say something. i've been noticing that trend with you as well. Defend your position or never mention anything like it again when you're here!

chele said...

This behavior is almost as bad as the cowardly anonymous posters.

Ddot the King said...

Yeah it's pretty sad.

Ok Daddy is going home. But first I'm going to rob my white co-workers in the parking lot and force the white women to have sex with me. Afterwards i will challenge all the men to game of basketball. I know that sounds bad but I just can't help it. That's all that is ever on my mind!

Good night my lovelies...:)

Carmell said...

night D

Carmell said...

oh damn...am ia lovely?

Kip said...

You have to go home king it is 4:30

Kip said...

Thank you for coming by my blog and I stand by what I said King. Yes I'm trying to help black people and all racial group understand themselves Dude. That's why I study and write instead of sitting around calling black people and others names.

Kip said...

I told you also that I prefer to pick this up at my blog Homey but since you wrote this about well we see what's up on the tommorrow if you continue this tommorrow I will respond. But if it becomes a bunch of cracking jokes and being silly about a serious subject then I will leave it alone

Carmell said...

i think he knows what time he has to go home. and this totally went over your head...which is no surprise.

Kip said...

I started following the comments about 4:15 pm your time king, I stayed up all and went to sleep at a 6:00am so at 4:15pm D.C. time I notice this post you wrote.

We just live in different time zones that's all. So it is really hard man really it is coming to your because of the time zone difference that's all King. But yeah I started reading comments at 4:15pm your time.

But anyway later!

Kip said...

Some people wonder why I ingnore their comments.

Sangindiva said...

I am just getting online today 5:30 p.m. PST
I must say your post was excellent today.
Your acticulation in expressing yourself,
and the clairity in which you got your point across
has impresssed me. I alway knew you had it in you:)
And yes... I do like it when sound smart...
but I LOVE to know that you are smart for REAL.
That fact not only makes me proud-
it makes me horny...
Yet another reason I am a slave to your throne.

Inside Man said...

Great post DDot, and I agree and respect with your response 100%.

I've taken the time to read Chance's post and its humerous that he's trying to sound smart on such disastrous examination.

(@ Chance) Dude, you effort may have been candid but your facts are broken down into a pseudo science which lead to generalizations like King has pointed out. I have to respectfully disagree with you man.

Rell said...

I missed a lot of stuff during the day while watching 13 hours of basketball.

Honestly, Generalizations are the worst thing on earth. I hate them with a passion and just like king would say, people who utilize them to support their agenda's suck.

ok to bed, another 13 hours of basketball comes tomorrow.

Heels play at 9:30 p.m.

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Kip said...

To Goddess,

Yeah! your life not mine.


And how does everybody know your in Germany for real you can next door to King ddot, for all we know remember this is the internet. You can be anybody, just like you don't use your real name why is that we all wonder?

Kip said...

King don't write another post I will see you in the morning. We will pick it up here depending on how your other commenters behave during our intellectual confabulation (talk) that will determine whether I continue answering comments.

Because if it just dwindles down to hood name calling and insults (possibly will happen anyway) well these things means no one is interesting in the intellectual debate. So I will just stop and sit and watch you people enjoy talking about me and the few comments I left.


So everybody will have their entertaiment for the day and the weekend.

Drama Kween said...

wwwwwwoooooooowwwwww

Good Morning

What in the Heezie happened up in here

1st LOL @ "Ok Daddy is going home. But first I'm going to rob my white co-workers in the parking lot and force the white women to have sex with me (if u have what's been said, u may not have to force yourself onto white women)..."

2nd Dude (aka Chance) you are twisted

3rd Damn that no posting crap, give us a RTF...

TTD said...

ok.. no one talk about Chance. (hard i know) but I want him and D to have a debate...

but honsestly chance, i dont buy your time zone story cuz ur usually here everyday by 12PM EST..

but we shall see if u wait til the last min again today to show ur presence....

NegroPino™ said...

SO this is what I miss after 4? imma ask them if i can stay later.......:)

NegroPino™ said...
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Carmell said...

chance as you can see in many comments you get ignored on all levels by many. so don't think you hurt my feelings. you talk so much shit even the somewhat smart things you say sound stupid

sorry Tif i had to

Kip said...

To King,


Generalizations are not all bad like you say it depends, but if someone has practiced rational observation and facts reveal what they reaveal then one should accept it.

Kip said...

To kween,


Yes I'm twisted there is a lot of truth to that.

Kip said...

To you,


I not interested go back to him ok I not interested! You got someone. But thank you!


This comment is for that particular person! You know who you are!

Kip said...

That why I took down my ugly mug (pic)

Carmell said...

where D anyway?

ddsprncs said...

I am checking you out via Laa laa, I have to say great post,
I don't fit the stereotypes so I always confuse people and have few real friends, and what you said about you and your brother, I have the same situation w/ my brother he lives in Santa Barbara and serfs and rides a Harley. He had major problems in High School b/c He did not fit into the black guy generalizations. He does date a white girl ;)
PS Don't hate on Cali to much I live here and it's not all gangs and oceans.
Some of us actually, raise kids, go to church and work real jobs.

Ddot the King said...

The King is here. We can continue this discussion in today's post.

Kip said...

Today's post it will be.

Kip said...

Blogger is trippin again folks seriously. error page, forbidden page, longtime to loadup, etc.

Kip said...

To king,


I just opened a new broser to post went to your clicked on comments and the whole page in the comment section went white. The only reason I can post is because I have an old browerser window to your blog and comment section still open. So comment b me might appear out of order. blogger has been trippin for two months and I understand what TTD meant now.

Mahndisa S. Rigmaiden said...

03 19 06

DDot: I guess many of us were feeling this about some of Chance's ramblings. I did a post about the issue here.
You did a great job of laying down why generalizations are not so good and even the issues with good v. bad stereotypes. If Chance is the intellectual that he says he is, he would have taken the opportunity to debate you fair and square. After all, he told me that you would be debating nine AM Pacific time, which is noon your time. Oh well. A true scholar is someone who can back up what they are saying with sources that are as objective as possible and can tolerate dissension from his views. Clearly, that is not the case here. Reminds me of that one guy on the Boondocks.

Peace said...

Dear Chance,

con·fab·u·la·tion (kn-fby-lshn) n.
The unconscious filling of gaps in one's memory by fabrications that one accepts as facts.

Look it up.
To "Chat casually" is only one of the loose meanings of this word - in the real world it means what is typed above - next time - just use the word "talk" it's easier.

Peace.