Dating Woes..
Oh and might I add if you women out there stopped chasing the thugs and wanna be thugs that might solve your problem! I mean let's think about it. You want the proverbial bad boy who has spent a large part of his youth and young adulthood in jail. Well those are very formative years for a man. If they are only around other men and a lot who are openly gay while in jail then you are going to end up with a problem. Take the time to get to know the quiet brother who is responsible. Believe me after a few months of nagging he'll want to choke you just as bad as the "bad boy"! I am great.
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I don't think it's about us women chasing thugs. I've gone on websites that show men looking for men and they look just like every other man out here. Sure, some of them are "thugish" but some of them are regular looking guys that you would never have thought got down like that. How about men just be honest about what they want and let the women choose whether they want to except it or not!
I can only speak for myself, I do like a man who is though and not someone who is shy or soft whom I can walk all over, but I do not like thugs! Thugs stay away!
Hey!!! First time atya blog, thanks for commenting on mine. I will admit,I love me a thug. I like image and the challenge. However, I don't like the other shit that comes along with it. I guess I just like bad boys :) I love tattoos, guns, black men (lol) and the toughness of a thug. I like the respect given by a thug. But you know, I'm down with most types of men, just something about a thug that makes me go crazy in a good way :)
But damn the quiet ones are usually ugly. Women dont chase thugs. We are nurturers (sp) most want men that they can coddle, nurture and even manipulate (yea i said it) to form into this idea of what they think a man is supposed to be like then...some leave, some stay but usually both parties dont always end up happy.
I don't like soft dudes. I want to know that if I go out with you and soemone touches my ass I can hold them down while you kick his ass. Thats just me. I'm not selffish we can alternate turns. I also like soft, compassionate romantic side. I dont need some dude to yell at me and throw me around the room. I'm good..thanx.
Anyway...I'm out of my thug phase give me a geek with a sense of humor.
Wow the ladies really turned out for this one! Ok well mstaz I see what you are saying but maybe you should just give guys the benefit of the doubt and stop looking for flaws whatever they might be from the get go. Have fun and loosen up!
Ginette I never said a guy should be soft. Even i know no woman wants a soft man...get your minds out the gutter!
Ok Danielle that's cool. But I hope you don't just like black men because you assume that we are all bad boys. But if you ever need a tough black guy to rough you up Holla at the KING! :)
Gift, I know what you mean. I guess I understand all you ladies. You want a manly man who can handle his business and is not afraid to throw down if necessary but also knows how to treat his woman. Oh and doesn't screw other dudes in his spair time!
Thanks for the love ladies!
This topic has forced woman to add yet another task to their neverending list of duties in a relationship...
How exhausting it must be trying to figure out if your boyfriend/husband is creepin w/ the fellas. If when he says he's playing ball - did he mean to say playing with a ball.. (LOL LOL)
Just keep it simple. When in doubt - do without.
yeah yeah I know what you mean Lady!!! LMAO!
Yeah that makes sense HomeDetentionLady. But somehow I think you could track him down!
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